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September 29, 2017 @ 1:13 am

Am I Transgender Enough?

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How do you know you're transgender or ready for transition? In this episode we answer a question a lot of listeners have asked. Do the thoughts and feelings I have make me transgender? What if I'm not ready for that? Am I really transgender enough to transition? Other trans people I've seen seem so much more advanced than me. On this episode we'll discuss how to deal with dysphoria and questions about whether transition is right for you. 

Check out New Gender Workbook by the always amazing Kate Bornstein. Also, You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to Discovery by Dara Hoffman Fox

Here's a link to the DSM V. This one's big and expensive.  Don't buy it, but if you see it in the reference section of your library and have an hour to kill, it's fun to flip through.  "Gender Dysphoria" is what we usually talk about on TGR, but the whole book is pretty cool, according  to Kath.

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Music by one of our favorite bands, the super cool, all-female punk band Jasper the Colossal. Download their new album "Take Your Time" and all their tracks on iTunes. 
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September 21, 2017 @ 1:23 pm

Part Time

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What does it mean to be a "part time" transgender person? In this episode we'll discuss the difference between being part time and full time. We'll talk what it means to live part time and discuss the costs and benefits of being out only some of the time to only some of the people in your life. 

 

If you are thinking about harming yourself, please, please, please reach out for help by calling the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline  1-800-273-8255 or the Trans Lifeline - 877-565-8860. You are not alone and you are worthwhile. 
 
 

Support us on Patreon to help us keep making great content, and to get some cool rewards-- like drinks with us at Stonewall Inn!

Check out our website for our latest episodes!  

 

Follow us on twitter for all our shower thoughts and other musings @TheGenderRebels 

 

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Music by one of our favorite bands, the super cool, all-female punk band Jasper the Colossal. Download their new album "Take Your Time" and all their tracks on iTunes. 
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September 14, 2017 @ 1:12 pm

Fat Redistribution

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What can hormone replacement therapy (HRT) really do? In this episode we answer a listener question from Sabene. She asks "Once I start on female hormones, will there really be a 'fat redistribution?'  Will those fat cells in my belly call a moving company and haul ass down to my ass?". We'll discuss HRT, body shape and whether HRT will really let your cells haul ass around your body. 

Here's the famous chart showing effects of HRT over time for MtFs, including, yes, fat redistribution. OBjQy5Z.jpg
You might aslo want to check out our episodes on Feminizing for Free and Shapewear

 

And if you're in the greater New York area, why not stop by the Alley Pond Adventure Course where you can learn to overcome your fear by jumping off a 40-foot telephone pole. You'll survive. Faith did.  (Kath chickened out.) Have faith. 

Support us on Patreon to help us keep making great content, and to get some cool rewards-- like drinks with us at Stonewall Inn!

Check out our website for our latest episodes!  

 

Follow us on twitter for all our shower thoughts and other musings @TheGenderRebels 

 

Like us on  FaceBook so we can haunt your feed. 

 

Music by one of our favorite bands, the super cool, all-female punk band Jasper the Colossal. Download their new album "Take Your Time" and all their tracks on iTunes. 
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September 8, 2017 @ 12:38 am

Fear.

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Transition can be scary. Transgender people face fear of rejection, fear of loneliness, fear of poverty. They fear for their safety. In this episode, we answer a listener question from Sabene who asks "How do you combat and overcome that fear? I am really struggling with that right now. I mean, it's almost pathological. And so I'd love to get your points of view and your experiences.  I have to get over this hurdle... and I don't know if I ever will." 

Some songs that deal honestly with mental illness (not that transgender people are mentally ill) and fear, and might prove inspirational, include Better Son/Daughter by Rilo Kiley, Bravado by Lorde (again with the Lorde), and Silk by Wolf Alice.

 

Also check out Faith's review of Boy Meets Girl featuring the wonderful trans actress Michelle Hendley.

 

And if you're in the greater New York area, why not stop by the Alley Pond Adventure Course where you can learn to overcome your fear by jumping off a 40-foot telephone pole. You'll survive. Faith did.  (Kath chickened out.) Have faith. 

Support us on Patreon to help us keep making great content, and to get some cool rewards-- like drinks with us at Stonewall Inn!

Check out our website for our latest episodes!  

 

Follow us on twitter for all our shower thoughts and other musings @TheGenderRebels 

 

Like us on  FaceBook so we can haunt your feed. 

 

Music by one of our favorite bands, the super cool, all-female punk band Jasper the Colossal. Download their new album "Take Your Time" and all their tracks on iTunes. 
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September 1, 2017 @ 3:07 pm

Coming Out Transgender at Work

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Coming out at work is a major step in transition. How does one even start?  In this episode, we'll discuss some ways to help your workplace transition go smoothly, peacefully, and as stressfree as possible. We'll talk planning, working with your organization and supervisor, dealing with problems and more. 

Check out Faith's Guide to Coming Out at Work. Here is Faith's coming out memo/email that went out company-wide, her own workplace transition plan, and a sample workplace transition policy that she helped write. 

Lamda Legal and the ACLU both may be resources if you encounter employment discrimination. Also check out the US Labor Laws, as they can vary from place to place. 

Also check out the Lorde song Bravado, which helped Faith screw up the courage to come out to HR. 

Support us on Patreon to help us keep making great content, and to get some cool rewards like drinks with us at Stonewall Inn. 

Check out our website for our latest episodes!  

 

Follow us on twitter for all our shower thoughts and other musings @Th eGenderRebels 

 

Like us on  FaceBook so we can haunt your feed. 

 

Music by one of our favorite bands, the super cool, all-female punk band Jasper the Colossal. Download their new album "Take Your Time" and all their tracks on iTunes. 
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The Gender Rebels is a weekly question-and-answer podcast that explores life outside the binary; crossdressing, transgender topics, queer life and anything else that helps break down the gender binary. It's hosted by Faith, a transgender woman in Brooklyn, and her cis female partner Kath. You might also hear a bark or two in the background from our cis dog Rocket. To ask us a question or share a thought emails us at questions@genderrebels.com